If you are having trouble manifesting a specific person, these 5 fixes will help you get your manifestation back on track.
Why Can’t I Manifest a Specific Person?
The only reason why you’re not manifesting your specific person is that you don’t fully believe in your desire.
Your manifestation is a direct reflection of your dominant thoughts (also known as beliefs).
If something is not manifesting, it means that your dominant thoughts are focused on not having your desire.
But don’t worry, there are 5 things you can do to get your beliefs back on track.
1. Clarify Why You Want Your Specific Person
If you can’t manifest a specific person, the first thing you should do is clarify your intention.
Grab a journal and describe your specific person. What is their name? What do they look like? Where did you meet this person? What’s the relationship status between you two?
Then write down why you want to manifest this person into your life. Why do you want to manifest this specific person?
Your intention is important it will dictate whether you attract positive or negative experiences.
If your intention is backed by negative energy like desperation, you’ll attract more negative outcomes.
If your intention is backed by positive energy like love, you will attract more positive outcomes.
2. Identify Your Limiting Beliefs
The second thing you should do is find out what’s blocking your manifestation.
If you’re having trouble manifesting a specific person (or anything else for that matter) into your life, it always means you do not fully believe in your desire.
In other words, you want to have this person in your life, but the majority of your thoughts revolve around the possibility of NOT having this person in your life.
You always manifest whatever you believe in.
If you believe it’s difficult to manifest this person, you will experience more difficulties and obstacles.
So grab a journal and write down all the limiting beliefs you have within you.
Some common limiting beliefs when manifesting a specific person are:
- I’m terrible at relationships
- I’m going to be alone forever
- I always sabotage my relationships
- I’m not attractive enough
- There’s no such thing as a soulmate
- Real love is hard to find
- Most relationships fail anyways
- I can’t be with this specific person
- It’s impossible to manifest this person back into my life
One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.
These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.
The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.
By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.
Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.
Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!
By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.
3. Go On A Mental Diet
The third thing you should try is to go on a mental diet.
A mental diet is the best solution to getting rid of your limiting beliefs.
Going on a mental diet simply means you actively monitor your thoughts and take action to change your thoughts whenever you find yourself doubting or worrying about your desire.
Thoughts attract other thoughts that are like it. This means that if you do not stop the momentum of your negative thoughts, they will continue to snowball and become a negative belief and then manifest in your life.
So instead of letting your thoughts fester and run wild, all you have to do is to be aware of the thoughts you’re thinking and interrupt the negative thought as soon as it pops up.
You can use a prayer like, “I am willing to see this situation differently,” to quickly change your thoughts.
Manifesting can be summed one in one sentence. What you believe is what you receive.
If you want to manifest something, you must make sure the majority of your thoughts support your vision of having what you want.
4. Visualize Every Night Until You Fall Asleep
The fourth thing you should try is to visualize your desired outcome every night until you fall asleep.
Neville Goddard, the pioneer of the Law of Assumption, recommends practicing visualization during a meditative state called a “state akin to sleep (SATS).”
In this relaxed state, your conscious mind begins to slow down which makes it the optimal time to impress new assumptions in your subconscious mind through your imagination.
You can access this state through meditation or you can take advantage of the time just before you fall asleep.
I prefer the latter because we do it every day anyway.
Once you’re in SATS, use your imagination to take yourself into the scene of your desire in the first person.
You want to feel as if you are in the scene and see your desired reality in the first-person view.
Once the scene ends, repeat it again. Loop it over and over.
Your mind will try to throw you off course. If you wander off, bring yourself back to the scene.
As you loop the scene, you will naturally FEEL the feelings in that scene that you’d feel as if you were actually there.
Do this until you fall asleep. If you successfully fall asleep while imagining your scene, the belief will be impressed into your subconscious mind and your belief will manifest in your reality.
The more you visualize during SATS, the faster you impress that desire into your subconscious mind.
As soon as that desire becomes your truth, it will manifest in your life.
5. Let Go Of The Outcome
If you can’t manifest a specific person, the final thing you should do is to let go of the outcome and just assume your specific person is already on their way to you.
Most people mess up their manifestation because they constantly worry about when or how they will manifest their specific person.
This is a big mistake because it basically negates all the work you have put in.
When you feel worried, it means that you don’t believe it will happen. And if you don’t believe it will happen, it won’t!
Manifesting can be summed one in one sentence. What you believe is what you receive.
If you want to manifest something, you must unblock all resistance standing between you and your desire by fully believing that it is already happening.
So the biggest lesson here is to simply have faith that your specific person is already on their way to you.
Trust that the Universe is always responding to your beliefs and you will always attract outcomes that are a match to your dominant thoughts.
