How To Manifest Someone Who Doesn’t Want You

Want to manifest someone who doesn’t want you? Follow these 5 steps to manifest them into your life.

Can You Manifest Someone Who Doesn’t Want You?

Yes. You can manifest someone who doesn’t want you.

The law of assumption states that you will manifest whatever you believe to be true.

Without exception, you will always attract into your life experiences that confirm your beliefs.

So of course, this law will apply to things like romantic partners.

Use these 5 steps below to manifest that specific person into your life.

1. Clarify Why You Want To Manifest This Person

The first step to manifesting someone who doesn’t want you is to clarify what you want and why you want it.

Step into the version of you who already manifested what you want and describe what your life looks like.

What is your partner like? What are you like? What is your relationship like?

Describe your manifestation in the present tense as if it’s already true.

Then write down why you want to manifest this person. What is your intention behind this desire?

Your intention is important it will dictate whether you attract positive or negative experiences.

If your intention is backed by negative energy like desperation, you will attract more negative outcomes.

If your intention is backed by positive energy like joy, you will attract more positive outcomes.

2. Visualize Your Life As If You’re Already With This Person

The second step to manifesting someone who doesn’t want you is to visualize how your life would look if you were already with this person.

As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.

Out of the many manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of what you want is through visualization.

Close your eyes, take deep breaths, and picture in your head what your life would be like if your desire had already manifested.

Visualize yourself being with your specific person, doing something romantic, having an intimate conversation —anything that will help you get into the feeling of having that desire.

To further embody the feeling of your manifestation being already done, ask yourself, “What would it feel like if my manifestation was already done?”

And then just let yourself feel that feeling. This feeling will show up differently for everyone. For some people, it may show up as a feeling of peace, for others it may show up as a feeling of groundedness. Trust that whichever way it shows up for you is perfect.

This feeling tells you that you are in a state of the wish fulfilled. That right now, you’re in absolute alignment with what you want. That right now, your subconscious mind is being reprogrammed to accept your new beliefs as true.

After feeling into this state for 2 minutes, anchor this feeling by placing your hand on your heart and repeating “It is done. It is done. It is done.”

Don’t try to visualize how you can make this happen or when this will happen.

If you already had your desire, would you be concerned with how or when it’s going to come? No! Right?

These questions will just create resistance against the end result you want to manifest.

3. Identify The Limiting Beliefs You Have Around Manifesting This Person

The third step to manifesting someone who doesn’t want you is to identify any limiting beliefs that are in your way.

Limiting beliefs are the beliefs that block you from fully believing you can have your desire.

Some common limiting beliefs when manifesting someone who doesn’t want you are:

  • I’m terrible at relationships
  • I’m going to be alone forever
  • I always sabotage my relationships
  • I’ll never find my soulmate
  • He/She does not love me
  • He/She does not want to talk to me
  • He/She does not want anything to do with me
  • He/She has moved on to someone else

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

4. Repeat Positive Affirmations

The fourth step to manifesting someone who doesn’t want you is to believe you can have good luck.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.

Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

One of the biggest mistakes I see people make manifesting is using generic affirmations that someone else made.

In order for your manifestation to work, you must create the affirmations yourself.

And more importantly, you must step into the version of you who already manifested the desire and create affirmations from their perspective.

If your beliefs create your reality, then what must you believe to be true in order to create your desired reality?

Here are some affirmations you can use to manifest good luck. Feel free to use these as inspiration to create your own.

  1. It’s possible for me to manifest this person.
  2. I create my own reality.
  3. My circumstances are a reflection of my thoughts.
  4. I know this person loves me.
  5. I know this person is interested in me.
  6. If I can dream it I can have it.
  7. I deserve to be with this person.
  8. I am worthy of receiving love.
  9. I am on my way to love.
  10. My positive energy is sexy and attractive.
  11. I am ready to share my love with someone.
  12. It feels good to be in love.

Notice how all of these are written in the present tense as if they are already true. This is an absolute requirement to make an affirmation that works.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.

Affirmations work best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

5. Assume Your Manifestation Is Already Unfolding

The final step to manifesting someone who doesn’t want you is to stop obsessing over it and just assume that your manifestation is already unfolding.

The most important thing you need to do is to trust that your manifestation is already happening.

Manifestation is a subtle process. 99% of the manifestation process is happening behind the scenes.

Most people mess up at this final stage because they constantly worry about when or how they will manifest their person.

This is a big mistake because it basically negates all the work you have put in.

When you feel worried, it means that you don’t believe it will happen. And if you don’t believe it will happen, it won’t!

Manifesting can be summed one in one sentence. What you believe is what you receive.

If you want to manifest something, you must unblock all vibrational resistance standing between you and your desire by fully believing that your manifestation is already done.

So the biggest lesson here is to maintain your belief by trusting that the Universe is already working diligently to bring your vision into reality.

Trust that the Universe is always responding to your energy and you will always attract outcomes that are a vibrational match for what you believe in.

If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your obsessive thoughts: Universe, I step back and let you lead the way.

How Long Does It Take To Manifest A Specific Person?

It can take a few weeks to manifest a specific person.

The amount of time it will take to manifest in your reality depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief that your manifestation is already done.

If you’re always focusing on the fact that you still haven’t manifested your person yet, that outcome is exactly what you will manifest.

Whatever you focus on, you attract.

You cannot think about not having what you want and manifest what you want at the same time.

If you want to manifest what you want, the majority of your thoughts must be aligned with the possibility that you will manifest this person no matter what.

This means no negative self-talk, no self-doubt, and no feeling sorry for yourself.

As long as you believe you can manifest this person, you will manifest it.

Does Manifesting Someone Who Doesn’t Want You Always Work?

Yes. Manifesting someone who doesn’t want you always works. 

However, your outcome may unfold in a slightly different way than you planned it.

For example, instead of manifesting this person to contact you on social media, you may manifest running into them and having a deep conversation about life.

This is why it’s so important not to limit the way you think your manifestation will unfold. Always be open to creative possibilities.

Remain aligned with your desire to manifest what you want, but stay open to when or how it will happen.

Can You Use The Law of Attraction To Manifest Someone?

Yes. You can use the Law of Attraction to manifest someone.

The Law of Attraction is the force behind all of our experiences including the people in your life.

The best way to use the Law of Attraction to manifest a person is to believe that you will manifest this person no matter what.

The only thing blocking you from manifesting someone is your beliefs.

Can You Manifest Someone Against Their Free Will?

Yes. You can manifest a specific person despite their free will because free will does not actually exist.

You have probably heard stories of people manifesting their boss to give them a raise or manifest winning a competition. These manifestations are no different than manifesting a specific person to fall in love with you.

According to the Law of Assumption, your reality is simply a direct reflection of your assumptions and beliefs.

This means that everything in your reality including the people is merely a projection of your internal assumptions and beliefs.

If someone chooses to believe that everyone in the world is out to harm them, they will experience people and situations that prove that belief as true.

But if someone chooses to believe that everyone in the world adores them, they will experience people and situations that prove that belief as true.

Your beliefs shape your reality. Literally. And you always have a choice in what you choose to believe in and therefore what you create.

So with this understanding, you can clearly see the existence of free will is merely an illusion.

There is no free will! Everyone (and everything) is your beliefs pushed out into the universe and reflected back to you like a mirror.

Your specific person is showing up in your reality as a direct reflection of what you believe to be true.

So by shifting your internal assumptions about your specific person, they must shift and reflect those new assumptions back to you. This is law.