How To Manifest A Better Relationship With Someone

Want to manifest a better relationship with someone special in your life? Follow these 5 steps to improve your relationship quickly.

Can You Manifest A Better Relationship With A Specific Person?

Yes. You can manifest a better relationship with a specific person like your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, and wife.

The powerful law of attraction states that like attracts like.

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your attention to.

So of course, this law will apply to things like romantic relationships.

Use these 5 steps below to manifest the ideal relationship you have been longing for now.

1. Clarify Why You Want To Manifest A Better Relationship

The first step to manifesting a better relationship with someone is to clarify what you want and why you want it.

Grab a journal and describe your ideal relationship. What would the relationship look like? How would it feel like? What would you do? What would they do?

Then write down why you want to manifest a better relationship. Why do you want this kind of relationship? What is your intention behind this desire?

Your intention is important it will dictate whether you attract positive or negative experiences.

If your intention is backed by negative energy like desperation, you’ll attract more negative outcomes.

If your intention is backed by positive energy like love, you will attract more positive outcomes.

2. Visualize Your Life As If Your Relationship Already Improved

The second step to manifesting a better relationship with someone is to visualize how your life would look like if you were already in your ideal relationship.

As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.

Out of the many manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of what you want is through visualization.

Close your eyes, take deep breaths, and picture in your head what your life would be like if your desire has already manifested.

Visualize yourself waking up beside your partner in the same bed, enjoying each other’s company, and trusting each other wholeheartedly—anything that will help you get into the feeling of having that desire.

Most people will feel joyful or happy which are all emotions with high vibrations.

According to the Law of Attraction, when you are joyful or happy, you will attract experiences that match your energy.

Don’t try to visualize how you can make this happen or when this will happen.

These unanswerable questions will just distract you from feeling the end result you want to manifest.

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3. Identify The Limiting Beliefs You Have Around The Relationship

The third step to manifesting a better relationship with someone is to identify any limiting beliefs that are in your way.

Limiting beliefs are the beliefs that block you from fully believing you can have your desire.

Some common limiting beliefs when manifesting improvements to a relationship are:

  • It is what it is
  • I am just stuck in this relationship
  • Our relationship is in a rut and we can’t get out of it
  • My partner is not cooperating
  • My partner doesn’t want to fix it with me
  • My partner won’t give me a second chance
  • It’s hard to improve a relationship by myself
  • I am terrible at relationships
  • I always mess it up
  • No one cares about me
  • No one loves me
  • This relationship is doomed to fail anyway
  • I don’t have any support
  • I have never been around a healthy relationship
  • I am repeating the same mistakes my parents made

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

4. Say Positive Affirmations To Believe It’s Possible To Improve The Relationship

The fourth step to manifesting a better relationship with someone is to believe you can manifest it using affirmations.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.

Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

Use these affirmations to combat your limiting beliefs:

  1. I create my own reality.
  2. My circumstances are a reflection of my thoughts.
  3. It’s possible to change our relationship for the better.
  4. There is still time to turn this around.
  5. I am willing to see this situation differently.
  6. I am willing to see opportunities instead of obstacles.
  7. I am determined to remain positive and optimistic.
  8. My positivity can influence my partner’s energy.
  9. I am willing to try new things.
  10. Anything is possible.
  11. The only one stopping me from manifesting this is me.
  12. My partner is responding to my thoughts.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.

Affirmations work best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

5. Assume The Relationship Is Already Improving

The final step to manifesting a better relationship with someone is to stop obsessing over it and just assume that the relationship is already getting better every day. 

The most important thing you need to do is to trust that the relationship is already improving and there’s no stopping it.

Every positive thought you think and every positive action you take is bringing your ideal relationship closer to you.

Most people mess up at this final stage because they constantly worry about when or how they will manifest their ideal relationship.

This is a big mistake because it basically negates all the work you have put in.

When you feel worried, it means that you don’t believe it will happen. And if you don’t believe it will happen, it won’t!

Manifesting can be summed one in one sentence. What you believe is what you receive.

If you want to manifest something, you must unblock all vibrational resistance standing between you and your desire by fully believing that it is already happening.

So the biggest lesson here is to maintain your belief by trusting that the Universe is already working diligently to bring your vision into reality.

Trust that the Universe is always responding to your energy and you will always attract outcomes that are a vibrational match for what you believe in.

If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your obsessive thoughts: Universe, I step back and let you lead the way.

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How Long Does It Take To Manifest A Better Relationship With Someone?

It can take a few weeks to manifest a better relationship with someone.

The amount of time it will take to manifest depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief that you can turn the relationship around.

If you’re always focusing on how bad the relationship currently is,  that outcome is exactly what you will manifest.

Whatever you focus on, you attract.

You cannot think about not having what you want and manifest what you want at the same time.

If you want to manifest what you want, the majority of your thoughts must be aligned with the possibility that you will manifest a better relationship no matter what.

This means no negative self-talk, no self-doubt, and no feeling sorry for yourself.

As long as you believe you can manifest getting a better relationship with your specific person, you will manifest it.

Does Manifesting A Better Relationship Always Work?

Yes. Manifesting a better relationship always works. 

However, your outcome may unfold in a slightly different way than you planned it.

For example, instead of manifesting a slightly improved relationship in 1 week, you may manifest a completely renewed relationship in 3 months after your partner is transformed by some serious soul-searching.

This is why it’s so important not to limit the way you think your manifestation will unfold. Always be open to creative possibilities.

Remain aligned with your desire to manifest what you want, but stay open to when or how it will happen.

Can You Use The Law of Attraction To Manifest A Better Relationship?

Yes. You can use the Law of Attraction to manifest a better relationship.

The Law of Attraction is the force behind all of our experiences including the status of our relationships.

The best way to use the Law of Attraction to manifest a better relationship is to believe that you can still improve the relationship.

The only thing blocking you from manifesting this is your thoughts.