Want to manifest and remove the 3rd party from your relationship? Follow these 5 steps to get rid of the 3rd party quickly.
Can You Manifest and Get Rid of a 3rd Party?
Yes. You can manifest and get rid of a 3rd party.
The powerful law of attraction states that like attracts like.
Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your attention to.
So of course, this law will apply to things like romantic relationships.
This means that if you focus on not having the 3rd party, they will go away.
Use these 5 steps below to manifest that 3rd party away now.
1. Clarify What Your Ideal Relationship Looks Like
The first step to manifesting a 3rd party away is to clarify what you want and why you want it.
Grab a journal and describe your ideal relationship. Who are you in a relationship with? What is their name? How do you want the relationship to be?
Then write down why you want to manifest this version of the relationship. Why do you want this kind of relationship? What is your intention behind this desire?
Do not write about the 3rd party in this step. You should act as if they didn’t even exist.
Your intention is important it will dictate whether you attract positive or negative experiences.
If your intention is backed by negative energy like desperation, you’ll attract more negative outcomes.
If your intention is backed by positive energy like true love, you will attract more positive outcomes.
2. Visualize Your Life As If The 3rd Party Was Already Gone
The second step to manifesting a 3rd party away is to visualize how your life would look like if the 3rd party was gone.
As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.
Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.
Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.
Out of the many manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of what you want is through visualization.
Close your eyes, take deep breaths, and picture in your head what your life would be like if your desire has already manifested.
Visualize yourself waking up beside your partner in the same bed, being in a committed relationship, and communicating with total honesty—anything that will help you get into the feeling of having that desire.
Most people will feel joyful or happy which are all emotions with high vibrations.
According to the Law of Attraction, when you are joyful or happy, you will attract experiences that match your energy.
Don’t try to visualize how you can make this happen or when this will happen.
These unanswerable questions will just distract you from feeling the end result you want to manifest.
3. Identify The Limiting Beliefs You Have Around The 3rd Party
The third step to manifesting a 3rd party away is to identify any limiting beliefs that are in your way.
Limiting beliefs are the beliefs that block you from fully believing you can have your desire.
Some common limiting beliefs when removing the 3rd party are:
- I can’t get rid of the third party
- I am terrible at relationships
- I can’t keep a partner
- The third party is better than me
- The third party is more attractive than me
- My partner is unfaithful
- My partner doesn’t want to be with me
One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.
These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.
The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.
By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.
Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.
Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!
By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.
4. Say Positive Affirmations To Believe It’s Possible To Get Rid Of The 3rd Party
The fourth step to manifesting a 3rd party away is to believe you can manifest it using affirmations.
Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.
Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.
Use these affirmations to combat your limiting beliefs:
- I create my own reality.
- My circumstances are a reflection of my thoughts.
- It’s possible to get rid of the third party.
- Just as I manifested them into my life, I can manifest them out of my life.
- I am unbothered by the third party.
- This is just a phase.
- I am ready to heal my limiting beliefs around love.
- I can hold a relationship.
- I am willing to let go of all my fears around relationships.
- The past does not dictate the future.
- I can rewrite my story.
- The only thing keeping this third party alive is my thoughts.
- I choose not to even think about the third party.
- I choose to focus on how good my relationship can be.
If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.
But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.
Affirmations work best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.
Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.
If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.
Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.
5. Assume The 3rd Party Is Already Leaving
The final step to getting rid of a 3rd party is to stop obsessing over them and just assume that they are already on their way out.
The most important thing you need to do is to trust that the 3rd party is already leaving and there’s no stopping it.
Most people mess up at this final stage because they constantly worry about when or how they will get rid of the 3rd party.
This is a big mistake because it basically negates all the work you have put in.
When you feel worried, it means that you don’t believe it will happen. And if you don’t believe it will happen, it won’t!
Manifesting can be summed one in one sentence. What you believe is what you receive.
If you want to manifest something, you must unblock all vibrational resistance standing between you and your desire by fully believing that it is already happening.
So the biggest lesson here is to maintain your belief by trusting that the Universe is already working diligently to bring your vision into reality.
Trust that the Universe is always responding to your energy and you will always attract outcomes that are a vibrational match for what you believe in.
If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your obsessive thoughts: Universe, I step back and let you lead the way.
How Long Does It Take To Remove a 3rd Party?
It can take a few months to remove the 3rd party from your relationship depending on how deeply embedded they are in the relationship.
The exact amount of time it will take to manifest depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief that you will get rid of them.
If you’re always focusing on how the existence of the 3rd party, you will continue to manifest this situation.
Whatever you focus on, you attract.
You cannot think about not having what you want and manifest what you want at the same time.
If you want to manifest what you want, the majority of your thoughts must be aligned with the possibility that you will get rid of the 3rd party no matter what.
This means no negative self-talk, no self-doubt, and no feeling sorry for yourself.
As long as you believe you can remove the 3rd party, you will manifest it.
Does Getting Rid of a 3rd Party Always Work?
Yes. Getting rid of a 3rd party always works.
However, your outcome may unfold in a slightly different way than you planned it.
For example, instead of getting rid of the 3rd party in a week just to have your partner be unfaithful again, you may remove this 3rd party in 6 months when your partner makes the commitment to be in a loyal relationship with you.
This is why it’s so important not to limit the way you think your manifestation will unfold. Always be open to creative possibilities.
Remain aligned with your desire to manifest what you want, but stay open to when or how it will happen.
Can You Use The Law of Attraction To Remove a 3rd Party?
Yes. You can use the Law of Attraction to remove the 3rd party from your relationship.
The Law of Attraction is the force behind all of our experiences including our relationships.
The best way to use the Law of Attraction to get rid of a 3rd party is to believe you can get rid of them no matter what.
The only thing blocking you from manifesting this is your thoughts.