How To Get Your Ex Back With Law of Attraction in 5 Steps

Wondering if you can get your ex back by using the Law of Attraction? The answer is YES.

Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction is a law of the universe that is always in action. 

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.

Of course, this law will apply to romantic relationships.

Keep reading below to learn how to get your ex back with the Law of Attraction in 5 steps.

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The Universe Always Responds

The Universe is always responding to your energy – whether you are aware of it or not.

When you’re sending out low-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

But when you send out high-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract the outcomes you desire.

Without exception, the Universe will deliver you people, experiences, and outcomes that match your vibrational frequency.

Step 1: Clarify Why You Want To Get Your Ex Back

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The first step to manifesting your ex using the Law of Attraction is to clarify what you want and why you want it. 

Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet, and according to the “like attracts like” principle, you’ll attract experiences that match it.

So you need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest it. 

Grab a journal and write down your ex’s name and why you want to get back together.

The “why” here is important because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.

If the reason you want to get your ex back is backed by negative energy like loneliness and desperation, then you’ll attract more negative outcomes.

Instead, you want the reason you want your ex back to be backed by positive intentions like happiness and joy so you can attract a loving relationship.

Another name for the Universe is Love because love is the highest vibrational energy you can be in.

When your desire is backed by love, the Universe is bound to respond by bringing more loving experiences into your life.

Step 2: Visualize As If You Are Back Together With Your Ex

Your energy creates your reality. Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Out of all the manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of reuniting with your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is through visualization.

For this exercise, go somewhere quiet where you can be alone with no disturbance.

Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you’ll feel when you are finally back with your ex.

Visualize your ex’s face, name, personality, and good memories – anything that will help you get into the feeling of being with him or her again. 

Once you have a strong mental picture of your ex, you should shift your focus to the good feelings this brings you.

You’ll want to focus on high-vibe feelings such as happiness, joy, and love. 

Refer to the Emotional Guidance Scale to find out how emotions correspond to vibrations.

When you feel happy, joyful, and in love, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.

Step 3: Witness Your Limiting Beliefs

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The third step is to witness your limiting beliefs that are in your way to manifesting.

Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life.

Limiting beliefs block your Law of Attraction powers because they drag you down towards negative energy. And when you’re in a state of negativity, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

Some common limiting beliefs when you are trying to manifest a lover are:

  • I’m terrible at relationships
  • I’m going to be alone forever
  • I always sabotage my relationships
  • I’ll never find true love
  • He/She does not love me
  • He/She does not want to talk to me
  • He/She does not want anything to do with me
  • He/She has moved on to someone else

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to acknowledge them.

By witnessing them, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them. 

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationship, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you unconsciously said you’re ready to heal and you’re ready to be free.

Step 4: Use Affirmations For Love

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Once you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, a good way to get rid of them is to use affirmations.

Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy. Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

To get started, select any of the following Affirmations For Love that resonate with you and use them to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I am lovable and worthy of receiving love.
  2. I open my heart and trust that true love will arrive.
  3. I know that my soulmate is waiting for me.
  4. I draw love and romance into my life with ease.
  5. I trust the universe will find me my perfect match.
  6. I trust that my intuition will lead me to where I need to go.
  7. Now is the right time and place to meet my perfect partner.
  8. Every experience I have is bringing me closer to my soulmate.
  9. I am attracting a relationship, based on love, honesty, and respect.
  10. I am attracting love and romance into my life, and I accept it now.

You can also try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

Step 5: Let The Universe Do Its Thing

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The final step is to step back and let the Universe do its thing.

Many people mess up at this stage because they are not willing to let go of their desired outcome. This leads to negative emotions like fear which throws you out of alignment with the Universe.

The biggest lesson here is to be patient and simply trust that the Universe has your back.

Even though your ex may not manifest as quickly as you’ve hoped or in the way you expect.  Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and will always lead to the highest good.

Keep using these 5 steps to maintain your high vibrational energy, and you are bound to attract loving experiences into your life.

While you are waiting for your manifestation, you can use these prayers to the Universe to detach from the outcome and stay aligned with the Universe.