Do you want to become a more confident person? Read this blog post and learn how to manifest confidence in 5 steps.
The biggest mistake people make when manifesting confidence is backing it up with negative energy like jealousy and insecurity.
We want to be more confident because we are jealous of someone. Or we feel insecure about our lack of confidence.
But true manifestation is backed by high vibrational positive energy like joy and inspiration.
Instead of being jealous of people who are more confident than you, let their confidence inspire you to work on your personal growth.
Celebrate their confidence as your own. Use it as a vision of what life could be like if you become a more confident person.
By turning this limiting belief into a positive story, you can get into vibrational alignment with your desire and manifest it into your reality.
Read below for 5 steps for how to manifest confidence.
1. Describe Who You Want To Become
The first step to manifesting confidence is to describe who you want to become.
As I teach in my manifestation course, the first step to manifesting anything is to get clear about what you want.
Being crystal clear about what you want to manifest helps you get into the feeling of that experience and attract it into your reality.
So bring out your manifestation journal and describe the kind of person you want to become.
Ask yourself questions like: What does confidence look like to you? How will you interact with other people? How will other people respond to your confidence? What will you do with this newfound confidence?
Really take your time with this first step.
Because the more details you write down, the easier it will be to align your energy with your desire.
2. Clarify Why You Want To Manifest Confidence
The second step to manifesting confidence is to clarify why you want to manifest confidence in the first place.
In other words, what is your intention behind this manifestation?
This step is super important because manifesting is all about your energy.
So by aligning your energy with the energy you want to experience. You will attract people, objects, and situations that are a vibrational match for you.
To sum it all up, your energy determines whether you will attract the outcomes that you want or outcomes that you don’t want.
Use the Emotional Guidance Scale to clarify the feelings and emotions that are backing up your desire.
Ask yourself these questions to identify your intentions behind the desire.
- Why do you want to be more confident?
- Do you want to be more confident for yourself? Or for others?
- How does being confident make you and others feel?
Different intentions can result in drastically different outcomes.
If your desire is backed by positive energy like a genuine passion for personal growth, then you will attract positive outcomes that match your high vibrational energy.
But if your desire is backed by negative energy like being jealous of those who are more confident than you, then you will attract negative outcomes that match your low vibrational energy.
Your answers will reveal to you whether the energy behind your desire is positive or negative.
If your intention is backed by positive emotions, you will manifest positive outcomes.
3. Visualize Your Future Self
The third step to manifesting confidence is to visualize your future self that is brimming with confidence.
As I explain in my book on manifesting, Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality. Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s the feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.
Bring what you’ve written down in steps 1 and 2 to a quiet room and sit in a comfortable position.
Think about your future self and imagine your new life as a confident person.
After you have created a realistic picture in your mind, shift your attention toward the positive intentions and emotions that are backing up your desire.
Think about how good it feels to be confident in yourself. Imagine how great it feels to live and speak your truth. Visualize how your confidence lights up every room you enter.
Sit in stillness for 5 minutes and let this positive energy take over your body, mind, and spirit.
This positive feeling is the type of energy you want to align with to manifest confidence.
By making this positive shift to your internal state, your outer world will begin to shift along with it.
The more you can dwell in this energetic vibration, the more quickly you will be able to attract confidence into your life.
Whenever you feel doubtful about your manifestation, revisit this visualization meditation to realign your energy.
4. Step Outside of Your Comfort Zone
The fourth step to manifesting confidence is to step outside of your comfort zone.
Now that you have successfully calibrated your energy with the feeling of confidence.
It’s time to take action from your new energetic standpoint.
Make a list of things that are outside of your comfort zone and organize from things that feel the easiest to things that feel the hardest.
Then go through the list, take action, and check them off one by one.
Before you attempt each task, make sure to go back to steps 1 to 3 to get into vibrational alignment with your desire.
When you are in a state of vibrational alignment, your actions are much more effective and produce much greater results than before.
Remember how good you felt in your visualization meditation, and let that high vibrational energy power your thoughts, feelings, and actions.
Trust that actions that are taking from a place of alignment will be greatly supported by the Universe, who is always there to meet you halfway.
5. Let Go and Allow
The final step is to let go and allow the Universe to lead the way.
Many people mess up here because they are constantly worrying about whether they will manifest confidence or not.
Well, this is a big no-no because it essentially negates all the work you have put in.
Doubting your manifestation lowers your vibration and throws you out of vibrational alignment with your desire.
When you vibrate at the low frequency of doubt, you attract people, situations, and experiences that create more doubt.
So the biggest lesson here is to be patient and trust that the Universe has your back.
Even though you may have a very specific picture in your mind of what confidence looks like, I want you to stay open to all the possibilities that are available for you.
Don’t let your attachment to a certain outcome get in the way of your manifestation.
Your confidence may manifest in ways that you could have never imagined.
Perhaps you will discover your confidence through your new job. Or you are actually the most confident when expressing your thoughts through writing.
By staying open to the infinite possibilities that are out there, you become receptive to all situations, opportunities, and people that nurture your confidence.
Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and you are being guided toward the highest good.
While you are waiting for your manifestation, keep your vibration high using these I Am affirmations, prayers to the Universe, or affirmation cards to detach from the outcome and maintain your vibrational alignment with what you want.