How To Manifest Love With A Specific Person In 5 Steps

Do you want to manifest love with a specific person in your life? Here are the 5 steps you need to follow.

Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction is a law of the universe that is always in action.

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.

Of course, this law will apply to love and romantic relationships.

Keep reading below to learn how to manifest love with a specific person in 5 steps.

Step 1: Clarify Why You Want To Be In Love

The first step to manifesting love with a specific person is to clarify what you want and why you want it.

Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet, and according to the “like attracts like” principle, you’ll attract experiences that match it.

So you need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest and why you want to manifest it.

Grab a manifestation journal and write down your lover’s name and why you want to be in a relationship with them.

Describe your specific person in detail and then clarify why you want to be with them.

The “why is important here because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.

If the reason you want to attract this person into your life is backed by negative energy such as loneliness and jealousy, then you’ll attract negative outcomes.

But if the reason you want to attract this person into your life is backed by positive energy such as happiness and joy, then you will attract a loving relationship.

If you are unsure whether your energy is positive or negative, read my blog post on the Emotional Guidance Scale.

Step 2: Visualize How It Feels To Be In Love

The second step to manifesting love with a specific person is to visualize how good it feels to be in love.

Your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts you when it comes to manifestation.

Out of the 22 manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of being in love with a specific person is through visualization.

For this exercise, go somewhere quiet where you can be alone for a while.

Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you’ll feel when you are in love with your specific person.

Visualize their face, personality, and good memories – anything that will help you get into the feeling of being with them again.

Once you have a strong mental picture of your lover, direct your attention to the positive feelings this brings you.

You’ll want to focus on high vibrational feelings such as happiness, joy, and love.

Refer to the Emotional Guidance Scale to find out how emotions correspond to vibrations.

When you feel happy, joyful, and loving, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.

Step 3: Call Out Your Limiting Beliefs

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The third step to manifest love is to get rid of the limiting beliefs that are in your way.

Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life.

Limiting beliefs block your manifestation power because they drag you down toward negative energy. And when you’re in a state of negativity, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

Some common limiting beliefs when you are trying to manifest love are:

  • I’m terrible at relationships
  • I’m going to be alone forever
  • I always sabotage my relationships
  • I’ll never find my soulmate
  • He/She does not love me
  • He/She does not want to talk to me
  • He/She does not want anything to do with me
  • He/She has moved on to someone else

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing them, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

Step 4: Recite Affirmations For Love

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Once you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, a good way to get rid of them is to use affirmations.

Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.

Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

To get started, select any of the following Affirmations For Love that resonate with you and use them to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I am worthy of receiving love.
  2. I am on my way to love.
  3. I am willing to perceive this situation with love.
  4. I am open to giving and receiving love.
  5. My positive energy is sexy and attractive.
  6. I attract loving relationships into my life.
  7. I am whole and complete right now.
  8. I am ready to share my love with someone.
  9. It feels good to be in love.
  10. I’m ready to meet my perfect match.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.

Affirmations work the best when you believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

Step 5: Let The Universe Lead The Way

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The final step to manifesting love is to step back and let the Universe lead the way.

Many people mess up at this stage because they are not willing to let go of their desired outcome.

This leads to negative emotions like fear which throws you out of alignment with the Universe.

When you are out of alignment with the Universe, you block your manifesting power so you are unable to hear the guidance from the Universe.

The biggest lesson here is to be patient and simply trust that the Universe has your back.

Even though your lover may not manifest as quickly as you’ve hoped or in the way you expect.

Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and will always lead to the highest good.

Keep using these 5 steps to maintain your high vibrational energy, and you are bound to attract loving experiences that match your energy.

While you are waiting for your manifestation, use these prayers to the Universe to detach from the outcome and stay aligned with the Universe.

How Long Does It Take To Manifest A Specific Person?

It usually takes a few months to manifest a specific person to fall in love with you.

The exact amount of time it will take depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief that you will be with them.

If you’re always doubting or worrying about your specific person, you will block it from manifesting.

So don’t let the timing of your manifestation throw you out of alignment with what you want.

As long as you believe you will be in a wonderful relationship, you will manifest it.

Does Manifesting A Specific Person Work?

Yes. Manifesting a specific person works. I know this because I have done it twice myself with two different people.

But manifesting a specific person is often more difficult than manifesting someone who meets your criteria because you most likely have preexisting beliefs about them as a result of past experiences.

If these preexisting beliefs are negative or traumatic, you may find it difficult to fully believe that you will be together in a happy relationship.

Remember, what you believe, you shall receive.

Can You Manifest a Specific Person to Fall in Love with You?

The short answer is yes, you can manifest a specific person to fall in love with you, but it’s not as simple as casting a spell or making a wish. Manifestation involves aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions with your desired outcome. Here are some considerations:

Additional Tips for Manifesting a Specific Person

  1. Positive Visualization: Begin by creating a clear mental image of the relationship you desire with this specific person. Imagine it as vividly and realistically as possible. This visualization process helps send out positive energy into the universe.
  2. Affirmations: Use affirmations to reinforce your belief in the manifestation. Repeat positive statements about your relationship with the person, such as “I am worthy of love from [specific person’s name],” or “Our love is growing stronger every day.”
  3. Focus on Self-Improvement: While working on manifesting your desired relationship, focus on personal growth. This can include physical, emotional, and spiritual self-improvement. Becoming the best version of yourself will increase your attractiveness to the specific person.
  4. Let Go of Resistance: Release any doubts or negative beliefs that may be blocking your manifestation. Trust in the process and the universe’s timing. Resistance can create obstacles in your journey.

Signs Your Specific Person Manifestation Is Coming True

Manifestation is often a gradual process, and it’s essential to remain patient. Look for these signs that your manifestation is on the right track:

  1. Synchronicities: You notice meaningful coincidences related to the person, such as seeing their name or encountering them unexpectedly.
  2. Improved Communication: You start having more frequent and meaningful interactions with the specific person.
  3. Positive Changes in the Relationship: Your relationship with the person begins to improve, and you sense a shift towards the desired outcome.

What You Can Do to Speed Up Your Manifestation

If you’re eager to see faster results in your manifestation journey, consider the following:

  1. Daily Practice: Consistency is key. Dedicate time each day to your manifestation techniques, whether it’s visualization, affirmations, or meditation.
  2. Gratitude: Express gratitude for the progress you’ve made and for the positive aspects of your life. Gratitude can amplify the manifestation process.

What to Do If Your Person Is Not Responding

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, the specific person may not respond as expected. In such cases:

  1. Reflect on Your Desires: Reevaluate your intentions and desires. Are they genuinely aligned with your highest good and the well-being of both parties involved?
  2. Practice Detachment: It’s crucial to detach from the outcome. Obsessing over the person’s response can create resistance.

Can You Manifest A Specific Person Even If They Don’t Know You?

Yes, you can manifest a specific person even if they don’t know you.

It doesn’t matter whether they know you or not.

It’s not your job to worry about how your manifestation will unfold.

As long as you believe in the result, you will manifest the essence of your desire in one way or another.

Can You Manifest A Specific Person Even If You Have No Contact?

Yes, you can manifest a specific person even if you have no contact with them. It doesn’t matter whether you have contact or no contact at all.

You do not need to worry about how you will end up together.

As long as you believe in the result, you will manifest the essence of your desire in one way or another.

Can You Manifest A Specific Person Even if They Blocked You?

Yes, you can manifest a specific person even if they blocked you. It doesn’t matter whether they blocked you or not.

It’s not your job to worry about how your manifestation will unfold.

As long as you believe in the result, you will manifest the essence of your desire in one way or another.

Manifesting Is About Your Energy

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Manifesting means acquiring the energy of what it is that you want to feel, and then being, living, and believing in that experience. And finally, allowing that experience to come into form.

The key to manifesting is to feel the energy of what you want to experience.

The Universe is always responding to your energy – whether you are aware of it or not.

When you’re sending out low-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

But when you send out high-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract the outcomes you desire.

Without exception, the Universe will deliver you people, experiences, and outcomes that match your vibrational frequency.

So it is important to be aware of your energy and thoughts at all times so you can stay aligned with the Universe.

Should You Give Up Manifesting a Specific Person?

Deciding whether to continue manifesting a specific person’s love ultimately depends on your intuition and the circumstances. If your efforts have led to no progress or if the relationship has become toxic or one-sided, it might be wise to consider letting go and focusing on your own well-being.


Manifesting a specific person to fall in love with you is a journey that requires patience, self-improvement, and a deep understanding of the principles of manifestation. While it’s possible to manifest love, it’s equally important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being throughout the process. Remember that the universe has its own timing, and sometimes, letting go and surrendering to the flow of life can lead to unexpected and beautiful outcomes.