How To Manifest Love In 5 Steps

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How To Manifest Love In 5 Steps

Do you want to manifest love in your life? Here are the 5 steps you need to follow.

Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. Like the Law of Gravity, the Law of Attraction is a law of the universe that is always in action. 

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.

Of course, this law will apply to love and romantic relationships.

Keep reading below to learn how to manifest love in 5 steps.

The Key To Manifesting Love

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Manifesting means to acquire the energy of what it is that you want to feel, and then being, living, and believing in that experience. And finally, allowing that experience to come into form.

The key to manifesting is to feel the energy of what you want to experience.

The Universe is always responding to your energy – whether you are aware of it or not.

When you’re sending out low-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

But when you send out high-vibe energy into the Universe, you’ll attract the outcomes you desire.

Without exception, the Universe will deliver you people, experiences, and outcomes that match your vibrational frequency.

So it is important to be aware of your energy and thoughts at all times so you can stay aligned with the Universe.

Step 1: Clarify Why You Want To Manifest Love

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The first step to manifest love is to clarify what you want and why you want it. 

Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet, and according to the “like attracts like” principle, you’ll attract experiences that match it.

So you need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest and why you want to manifest it. 

Grab a manifestation journal and write down the qualities of your soulmate and why you want to be in a relationship with them.

Describe your perfect match in detail and then clarify why you want to be with them.

The “why is important here because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.

If the reason you want to attract this person into your life is backed by negative energy such as loneliness and jealousy, then you’ll attract negative outcomes.

But if the reason you want to attract this person into your life is backed by positive energy such as happiness and joy, then you will attract a loving relationship.

If you are unsure whether your energy is positive or negative, read my blog post on the Emotional Guidance Scale.

Step 2: Visualize How Good It Feels To Be In Love

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The second step to manifest love is to visualize how good it feels to be in love.

Your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.

So if you want to attract love into your life, you must vibrate at the energetic frequency of love.

Out of the 22 manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of being in love is through visualization.

Visualization is one of the most powerful techniques for manifesting love because it allows you to embody the high vibrational energy of being in love in the present moment.

  • For this exercise, go somewhere quiet where you can be alone for a while.
  • Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you’ll feel when you are in love.
  • Visualize their face, personality, and good memories – anything that will help you get into the feeling of being with them. 
  • Once you have a strong mental picture of your lover, direct your attention to the high vibrational energy this brings you.
  • According to the Emotional Guidance Scale, some common high vibrational positive feelings are love, happiness, joy, optimism, and appreciation.

Make it a daily habit to meditate and dwell on these positive feelings.

When you feel happy, joyful, and loving, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.

Whenever you feel discouraged by your circumstances, turn to visualization to quickly raise your vibration back to love.

Step 3: Get Rid Of Limiting Beliefs

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The third step to manifest love is to get rid of the limiting beliefs that are in your way.

Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life.

Limiting beliefs block your manifestation power because they drag you down toward negative energy. And when you’re in a state of negativity, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

Some common limiting beliefs when you are trying to manifest love are:

  • I’m terrible at relationships
  • I’m going to be alone forever
  • I always sabotage my relationships
  • I’ll never find my soulmate
  • He/She does not love me
  • He/She does not want to talk to me
  • He/She does not want anything to do with me
  • He/She has moved on to someone else

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing them, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them. 

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

Step 4: Recite Affirmations For Love

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Once you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, a good way to get rid of them is to use affirmations.

Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.

Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

To get started, select any of the following Affirmations For Love that resonate with you and use them to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I am worthy of receiving love.
  2. I am on my way to love.
  3. I am willing to perceive this situation with love.
  4. I am open to giving and receiving love.
  5. My positive energy is sexy and attractive.
  6. I attract loving relationships into my life.
  7. I am whole and complete right now.
  8. I am ready to share my love with someone.
  9. It feels good to be in love.
  10. I’m ready to meet my perfect match.
  11. I enter relationships with an open mind and an open heart.
  12. I welcome positive and loving relationships into my life.
  13. I surrender all negative and judgmental thoughts.
  14. I deserve a loving relationship.
  15. I attract love into my love easily.
  16. I am lovable and worthy of receiving love.
  17. I open my heart and trust that true love will arrive.
  18. I know that my soulmate is waiting for me.
  19. I manifest love and romance into my life with ease.
  20. I trust the Universe will find me my perfect match.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel. 

Affirmations work the best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

Step 5: Surrender The Outcome To The Universe

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The final step to manifest love is to step back and let the Universe lead the way.

If you want to manifest love, you must be willing to release the outcome to the Universe.

One of the best ways to detach from the outcome is to pray to the Universe.

Use this prayer of surrender to let go of your controlling tendency to allow yourself to receive guidance from the Universe, “Universe, I surrender my agendas, timelines, and desires to you. I trust that you are leading me towards solutions of the highest good for all.

Trying to control the outcome of a manifestation is one of the biggest blocks to manifesting your dreams and goals.

When you’re obsessing over a certain outcome, you’re telling the Universe that you don’t have faith in the divine plan.

Do you think the Universe will conspire to help you manifest love into your life if you don’t even believe in a higher power? Of course not.

The lesson here is to have faith in the Universe and simply let go and allow.

When you let go of your expectations, you allow the Universe to guide you toward your soulmate.

Many people mess up at this stage because they are not willing to let go of their desired outcome.

Even though your lover may not manifest as quickly as you’ve hoped or in the way you expect. 

Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and will always lead to the highest good.

Keep using these 5 steps to maintain your high vibrational energy, and you are bound to attract loving experiences that match your energy.

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I hope you find this blog post helpful. I look forward to hearing your thoughts down below.