How To Manifest Someone to Be Obsessed With You

Want to use make someone obsessed with you using manifestation? Follow these 5 steps to manifest someone to be obsessed with you.

I used these steps to manifest someone to be obsessed with me so I know that it works!

Can You Manifest Someone To Be Obsessed With You?

Yes. You can manifest someone to be obsessed with you. Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.

As explained in my Ultimate Guide to Law of Attraction, the law of attraction states that like attracts like.

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.

So of course, this law will apply to romantic relationships!

Use these 5 steps below to manifest someone to be obsessed with you.

Step 1: Clarify Why You Want Someone To Be Obsessed With You

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The first step to manifest someone to be obsessed with you is to clarify what you want and why you want it.

Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet, and according to the “like attracts like” principle, you’ll attract experiences that match it.

So you need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest.

Grab a journal and write down your specific person’s name and why you want them to be obsessed with you.

The “why” here is important because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.

If the reason behind your desire is backed by negative energy like loneliness and desperation, then you’ll attract more negative outcomes.

Instead, you want your desire to be backed by positive intentions like happiness and joy so you can attract a loving relationship.

Another name for the Universe is Love because love is the highest vibrational energy you can be in according to the Emotional Guidance Scale.

When your desire is backed by love, the Universe is bound to respond by bringing more loving experiences into your life.

Step 2: Visualize Your Desire

The second step to manifest someone to be obsessed with you is to visualize how it feels to experience what you want.

As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.

Out of the many manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling when of what you want is through visualization.

Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you would feel when your specific person is obsessed with you.

Most people will feel excited, optimistic, or happy which are all emotions with high vibrations.

Visualize your specific person, their voice, their thoughts, their actions—anything that will help you get into the feeling of being obsessed with.

Make it a daily habit to meditate and dwell on these positive feelings.

When you feel happy, joyful, and loving, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.

Turn to visualization whenever your negative thoughts start to creep in so that you can return this high-vibe feeling.

Once you feel comfortable with visualization, you can try using these 22 manifestation techniques to raise your vibration and manifest what you want.

Step 3: Call Out Your Limiting Beliefs

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The third step to manifest someone to be obsessed with you is to acknowledge the limiting beliefs that are blocking your way to manifesting.

Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life in some way, shape, or form. Limiting beliefs block your manifesting power by dragging down your energy into a state of low vibration.

Some common limiting beliefs when manifesting someone to be obsessed with you are:

  • They don’t like me
  • They don’t want to talk to me
  • They don’t want anything to do with me
  • They like someone else
  • They never think about me
  • I’m not even on their radar

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

Step 4: Say Affirmations To Make Someone Obsessed With You

The fourth step to manifest someone to be obsessed with you is to shatter your limiting beliefs by saying affirmations.

Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy. Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

To get started, choose any of the following affirmations that resonate with you and use them whenever you need to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I’m always on my lover’s mind.
  2. (Your specific person’s name) is always thinking about me.
  3. (Your specific person’s name) is obsessed with me.
  4. It feels so good to be thought about.
  5. It feels great to know that I’m on their mind.
  6. I enjoy thinking about them too.
  7. It feels so good to visualize spending time with them.
  8. I am the creator of my reality.
  9. My loving energy attracts loving experiences.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.

Affirmations work the best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

Step 5: Let Go And Allow Your Manifestation To Unfold

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The final step is to step back and let the Universe lead the way.

Many people mess up at this stage because they constantly worry about what their specific person is thinking.

This is a big no-no because it essentially negates all the work you have put in.

Feelings of worry and fear lower your vibration and create huge resistance against what you want.

If you want to manifest something, you must unblock all vibrational resistance standing between you and your desire.

Because in the absence of resistance, your desire must come to you. This is how the Law of Attraction works.

So the biggest lesson here is to maintain your high vibrational energy by trusting that the Universe has your back.

Trust that the Universe is always responding to your energy and you will always attract outcomes that are a vibrational match for how you feel.

If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your controlling tendency to allow yourself to receive guidance from the Universe, “Universe, I surrender my agendas, timelines, and desires to you. I trust that you are leading me towards solutions of the highest good for all.”

How Long Does It Take To Manifest Someone To Be Obsessed With You?

It can take a few weeks to manifest someone to be obsessed with you.

It took me only 2 weeks to manifest someone being obsessed with me.

The amount of time it will take to manifest someone to be obsessed with you depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief they are obsessed with you.

If you’re always worrying about what’s on their mind and doubting yourself, you will block your desire from manifesting.

You cannot think about not having what you want and manifest what you want at the same time.

The majority of your thoughts must be aligned with the thought that he or she is already obsessed with you.

This means no negative self-talk, no self-doubt, and no thinking about third parties or the competition out there.

As long as you believe you can manifest someone to be obsessed with you, it will happen.

Does Manifesting Someone To Be Obsessed With You Always Work?

Yes. Manifesting someone to be obsessed with you always works.

However, your outcome may unfold in a different way than you planned it.

For example, instead of manifesting a specific person to be obsessed with you, you may manifest someone even better to be obsessed with you.

This is why it’s so important to not limit the way you think your manifestation will unfold. Always be open to creative possibilities.

Remain aligned with your desire to be in a loving relationship with someone, but stay open to who that partner is or how they look like.

Can You Use The Law of Attraction To Manifest Someone To Be Obsessed With You?

Yes. You can use the Law of Attraction to manifest someone to be obsessed with you.

The Law of Attraction is the force behind all of our interactions with other people including our thoughts.

The best way to use the Law of Attraction to manifest someone to be obsessed with you is to believe that they are thinking about you all the time.

The only thing blocking you from manifesting this is your thoughts.

If you want someone to be obsessed with you, you must convince yourself that you are already on their mind all the time.

Whatever you focus on you attract.

If you’re always worrying about third parties or the competition out there, that is what you will attract more of.

Can You Manifest Someone To Be Obsessed With You Even If They Don’t Know You?

Yes, you can manifest someone to be obsessed with you even if they don’t know you.

It doesn’t matter if they know you or not.

It’s not your job to worry about how your manifestation will unfold.

As long as you believe in the result, you will manifest the essence of your desire in one way or another.

How Do You Know When Your Specific Person Is Becoming Obsessed With You?

While manifestation can take time, it’s important to recognize the signs that your specific person is becoming more infatuated with you:

1. Increased Attention: You’ll notice that your specific person is paying more attention to you. They might initiate calls, send texts, or seek more in-person interactions.

2. More Affection: Their affectionate gestures become more frequent and heartfelt, reflecting their growing feelings.

3. Jealousy: Your specific person may show signs of jealousy when you interact with others. This emotion often signals their attachment to you.

4. Consistency: They become more consistent in their interactions and display genuine interest in your life, indicating a deepening connection.

What Else Can You Do To Make Someone Obsessed With You?

In addition to the practice of manifestation, consider these strategies to make someone obsessed with you:

1. Be Authentic: Authenticity is an attractive quality. Be yourself and let your genuine personality shine. Authenticity creates a strong foundation for a meaningful connection.

2. Show Interest: Genuine interest in your specific person’s life, dreams, and passions will strengthen your connection. Listen actively and engage in meaningful conversations.

3. Build Emotional Connection: Deepen your emotional connection through shared experiences and heartfelt conversations. Open up about your own life and feelings to encourage reciprocity.

4. Give Them Space: While you want them to be obsessed, it’s important to respect their personal space and independence. Balance togetherness with individuality.

What To Do If Your Manifestation Is Not Working

If your manifestation isn’t yielding the desired results, remain patient and persistent. Here’s how to address potential roadblocks:

1. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your intentions and affirmations. Are they clear and specific, or do they need refinement?

2. Release Resistance: Identify and release any doubts, fears, or negative thoughts that may be blocking your manifestation. Acknowledge and let go of resistance.

3. Revisit Your Technique: Experiment with different manifestation techniques, such as scripting, vision boards, or meditation. Sometimes, a change in approach can make a significant difference.

4. Consult a Manifestation Expert: If you’re struggling to manifest your desires, consider seeking guidance from a manifestation coach or expert. They can provide personalized advice and support tailored to your situation.

Additional Tips for Manifesting Someone To Be Obsessed With You

1. Stay Positive: Maintain a positive mindset throughout the process. Negative thoughts can hinder your manifestation, so practice self-awareness and replace negativity with optimism.

2. Trust the Universe: Believe in the power of the universe to bring your desires to you in the right time and manner. Trust the process and let go of impatience.

3. Self-Care: Take care of yourself physically and emotionally. Self-love and self-care are attractive qualities, and they contribute to a healthy, balanced relationship.

4. Detachment: Avoid becoming too attached to the outcome. Let go and have faith that the universe will orchestrate the best possible scenario.


Manifesting someone to be obsessed with you is a complex and intricate journey that requires patience, self-love, and clear intentions. While you can influence the feelings of others through manifestation, always remember to respect their autonomy and boundaries. In the end, the key to success lies in your own personal growth and the authenticity of your intentions, allowing love to bloom naturally and profoundly in your life.