How To Manifest Someone To Miss You In 5 Steps

Do you want to make someone miss you? Here’s how to manifest someone to miss you in 5 steps.

The biggest mistake when manifesting is to focus on what you don’t want rather than what you do want.

Instead of believing they miss you,  you believe they don’t miss you.

This causes you to be stuck in negative energy like worry, depression, and loneliness.

And the more negative you feel, the more resistance you create against the loving experiences that you actually want.

If you want to make someone miss you, you have to lean into how good it feels to be missed.

By cultivating the positive feelings of someone missing you, you will eventually make that experience your reality.

Follow these 5 steps and manifest someone to miss you.

1. Describe How You Want Them To Miss You

The first step to manifesting someone to miss you is to describe how you want them to miss you.

As I teach in my manifestation course, the first step to manifesting anything is to get clear about what you want.

Being crystal clear about what you want to manifest helps you get into the feeling of that experience and attract it into your reality.

So take out your manifestation journal and write down the name of the person that misses you.

Then, write in detail about how he or she misses you.

How do they really feel inside? What will they do about this feeling? How will they handle missing you?

Describe the ideal scenario that you would like to manifest.

The more details you write down, the easier it will be to achieve vibrational alignment with your desire and bring it into your reality.

2. Clarify Why You Want It

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The second step to manifesting someone to miss you is to clarify why you want it.

This step is very important because your energy creates your reality.

As I explain in my manifestation book, Feeling Good, the Law of Vibration states that everything vibrates including your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

And by the Law of Attraction, energies with similar vibrations are drawn to each other.

So by aligning your energy with the energy you want to experience, you will attract people, objects, and situations that are a vibrational match for you.

To sum it all up, your energy determines whether you will attract the outcomes that you want or outcomes that you don’t want.

So for step 2, use the Emotional Guidance Scale to clarify the energy that is backing up your desire.

Ask yourself these questions to identify your intentions behind the desire.

  1. Why do you want them to miss you?
  2. How do you feel when you miss them?
  3. Does it feel good or bad to miss them?

Your answers will tell you whether your energy is positive or negative.

If you want them to miss you because you’re stuck in low vibrational emotions like jealousy or fear of being alone, then you will receive negative outcomes that match your negative vibration.

If you want them to miss you because you’re inspired by high vibrational emotions like love and passion, then you will receive positive outcomes that match your positive vibration.

The one thing you need to know about the Law of Attraction is you attract what you feel—not what you want.

3. Visualize Them Missing You

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The third step to manifesting someone to miss you is to visualize them missing you right now.

Out of the 22 manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of what you want to experience is through visualization. I created a great guide on visualization you can follow.

Start the visualization process by thinking about your specific someone.

Imagine them missing you and the things they do as a result of missing you.

After you have created a realistic picture in your mind, shift your attention toward the positive intentions and emotions that are backing up your desire.

Imagine their love and appreciation for you. Relive the happy memories you two had in the past. Think about how excited they are to reconnect with you.

Sit in stillness and let this positive energy take over your body, mind, and spirit.

You’re going to want to remember this feeling and use it as your energetic point of reference.

Instead of spiraling into negative emotions, channel this positive energy whenever you miss them.

Whenever you feel doubtful about your manifestation, revisit this visualization meditation to realign your energy.

Once you feel comfortable with visualization, you can try using the other 22 manifestation techniques to raise your vibration and manifest what you want.

4. Recite Affirmations

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The fourth step to manifesting someone to miss you is to recite affirmations for love.

Affirmations are positive statements you can see to gently replace your negative thoughts with more positive ones.

Recite your affirmations to sustain the positive energy you cultivated in Step 4.

To get started, choose any of the following affirmations that resonate with you and use them whenever you need to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I am worthy of receiving love.
  2. I am willing to perceive this situation with love.
  3. I am open to giving and receiving love.
  4. My positive energy is sexy and attractive.
  5. I attract loving relationships into my life.
  6. I am whole and complete right now.
  7. It feels good to be in love.
  8. I release the past and the future.
  9. I surrender my relationship to the Universe.

The key to using positive affirmations is to believe in them.

Say each affirmation a few times and see which ones resonate with you. 

Pick a few that make you feel really good and say them every morning and every night to raise your vibration and attract more positive outcomes into your life.

Go to my Affirmations Archive for more positive affirmations for love and relationships.

5. Release The Outcome

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The final step to manifesting someone to miss you is to simply let go and allow your manifestation to come true.

Do not spend too much time thinking or worrying about the outcome. When you obsess over the results, you’re signaling your lack of faith in the Universe.

Do you think the Universe will help you manifest if you don’t believe in a higher power? 

The biggest lesson here is to be patient and simply trust that the Universe has your back.

Even though you want them to miss you, I want you to stay open to all the possibilities that are available for you.

The last thing you want to do is to let your attachment to a certain outcome get in the way of your manifestation.

Focus on raising your own energy and give them the space and time they need to think about what they truly want.

Perhaps they will reach out to you via text message after a week or two. Maybe they need some alone time to think about their next move. Or perhaps they need to do some inner work and go on a spiritual journey before they are ready to commit to a real relationship.

By staying open to the infinite possibilities that are out there, you become receptive to all situations, opportunities, and experiences that work out for your highest good.

While you are waiting for your manifestation, keep your vibration high using these I Am affirmationsprayers to the Universe, or affirmation cards to detach from the outcome and maintain your vibrational alignment with what you want.