Do you want to manifest a girlfriend that loves you? Here are the 5 steps you need to follow if you want to attract the woman of your dreams.
Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.
The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like.
Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.
Of course, the Law of Attraction will apply to love and romantic relationships.
Keep reading below to learn how to manifest a girlfriend in 5 steps.
Step 1: Clarify Why You Want A Girlfriend
The first step to manifest a girlfriend is to clarify why you want to manifest this.
Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet that sends out energy, and according to the Law of Attraction, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy.
So if you want to manifest a loving relationship, you will first need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest and why you want to manifest it.
Grab a manifestation journal and describe the qualities of the woman of your dreams and why you want to be in a relationship with her.
Describe your perfect match with specific details like her name, height, personality, likes, and dislikes, and then clarify why you want to be in a relationship with her.
The “why“ is very important here because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.
Manifesting is all about the intention that is backing your desires.
If the reason you want to manifest a girlfriend is backed by negative energy such as loneliness and jealousy, then you’ll attract negative experiences.
But if the reason you want to manifest a girlfriend is backed by positive energy such as happiness and joy, then you will manifest a loving relationship.
If you are unsure whether your energy is positive or negative, read my blog post on the Emotional Guidance Scale.
Step 2: Visualize How It Feels To Be With Her
The second step to manifest a girlfriend is to visualize how good it feels to be in love.
As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.
Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.
Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.
So if you want to attract love into your life, you must aim to vibrate at the energetic frequency of love all the time.
Visualization is one of the most powerful techniques for manifesting love because it allows you to embody the high vibrational energy of being in love in the present moment.
- For this exercise, go somewhere quiet where you can be alone for a while.
- Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you’ll feel when you are in love.
- Visualize her face, personality, and good memories – anything that will help you get into the feeling of being with her.
- Once you have a strong mental picture of your girlfriend, direct your attention to the high vibrational energy this brings you.
- According to the Emotional Guidance Scale, some common high vibrational positive feelings are love, happiness, joy, optimism, and appreciation.
Make it a daily habit to meditate and dwell on these positive feelings.
When you feel happy, joyful, and loving, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.
Whenever you feel discouraged by your circumstances, turn to visualization to quickly raise your vibration back to love.
Step 3: Get Rid of Limiting Beliefs About Love
The third step to manifest a girlfriend is to get rid of the limiting beliefs that are in your way.
Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life.
Limiting beliefs block your manifestation power because they drag you down toward negative energy. And when you’re in a state of negativity, you’ll attract negative outcomes.
Some common limiting beliefs that can block you from manifesting a girlfriend are:
- I’m terrible at relationships
- I’m going to be alone forever
- I always sabotage my relationships
- I’ll never find my soulmate
- True love only exists in fairy tales
- I’m not attractive enough
- I’m not interesting enough
- There’s no such thing as a soulmate
- Real love is hard to find
- Most relationships fail anyways
One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.
These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.
The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.
By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.
Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them.
Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!
By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.
Step 4: Say Positive Affirmations
Once you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, a good way to get rid of them is to use affirmations.
Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.
Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.
Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.
To get started, select any of the following Affirmations For Love that resonate with you and use them to combat negative thoughts.
- I’m ready to meet my perfect match.
- I enter this relationship with an open mind and heart.
- I welcome a positive and loving relationship into my life.
- I surrender all negative and judgmental thoughts.
- I deserve a loving relationship.
- I attract love into my life easily.
- I am lovable and worthy of receiving love.
- I open my heart and trust that true love will arrive.
- I know that my soulmate is waiting for me.
- I trust the Universe will find me my perfect match.
If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.
But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel.
Affirmations work the best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.
Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.
If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.
Step 5: Surrender Your Relationship To The Universe
The final step to manifest a girlfriend is to step back and let the Universe lead the way.
If you want to manifest love, you must be willing to release the outcome to the Universe.
Trying to control the outcome of a manifestation is one of the biggest blocks to manifesting your desires.
When you’re obsessing over a specific outcome, you’re telling the Universe that you don’t have faith in the divine plan.
Do you think the Universe will want to help you manifest a girlfriend into your life if you don’t even believe in a higher power? Of course not.
The lesson here is to have faith in the Universe and simply let go and allow.
When you let go of your expectations, you open up yourself to allow the Universe to guide you toward your soulmate.
Even though your girlfriend may not manifest as quickly as you’ve hoped or in the way you expect.
Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and will always lead to the highest good.
Keep using these 5 steps to maintain your high vibrational energy, and you are bound to manifest a loving relationship that matches your loving energy.
If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your controlling tendency to allow yourself to receive guidance from the Universe, “Universe, I surrender my agendas, timelines, and desires to you. I trust that you are leading me towards solutions of the highest good for all.“