How To Manifest Your Crush

Do you want to manifest your crush? Here are the 5 steps you need to follow if you want to attract the partner of your dreams.

Even though you may not always be aware of it, you are constantly manifesting your reality.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like. 

Without exception, you will always attract into your life whatever you give your energy, focus, and attention to.

Of course, the Law of Attraction will apply to love and romantic relationships.

Keep reading below to learn how to manifest your crush in 5 steps.

Step 1: Clarify Why You Want Your Crush

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The first step to manifest your crush is to clarify why you want to manifest them. 

Your thoughts and beliefs are like a magnet that sends out energy, and according to the Law of Attraction, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy.

So if you want to manifest a loving relationship, you will first need to have absolute clarity over what you want to manifest and why you want to manifest it. 

Grab a manifestation journal and describe the qualities of the partner of your dreams and why you want to be in a relationship with them.

Describe your perfect match with specific details like their name, height, personality, likes, and dislikes, and then clarify why you want to be in a relationship with them.

The “why is very important here because it will dictate whether you will attract positive or negative experiences.

Manifesting is all about the intention that is backing your desires.

If the reason you want to manifest your crush is backed by negative energy such as loneliness and jealousy, then you’ll attract negative experiences.

But if the reason you want to manifest your crush is backed by positive energy such as happiness and joy, then you will manifest a loving relationship.

If you are unsure whether your energy is positive or negative, read my blog post on the Emotional Guidance Scale.

Step 2: Visualize How It Feels To Be With Your Crush

The second step to manifest your crush is to visualize how good it feels to be in love.

As I teach in my book Feeling Good, your energy creates your reality.

Therefore, it’s important to remember that it’s your feeling that attracts when it comes to manifestation.

Whatever energy and attention you put out into the Universe, will come back to you.

So if you want to attract love into your life, you must aim to vibrate at the energetic frequency of love all the time.

Out of the 22 manifestation techniques available, the best way to get into the feeling of being in a loving relationship is through visualization.

Visualization is one of the most powerful techniques for manifesting love because it allows you to embody the high vibrational energy of being in love in the present moment.

  • For this exercise, go somewhere quiet where you can be alone for a while.
  • Take deep breaths and picture in your head how you’ll feel when you are in love.
  • Visualize their face, personality, and body—anything that will help you get into the feeling of being with them. 
  • Once you have a strong mental picture of your crush, direct your attention to the high vibrational energy this brings you.
  • According to the Emotional Guidance Scale, some common high vibrational positive feelings are love, happiness, joy, optimism, and appreciation.

Make it a daily habit to meditate and dwell on these positive feelings.

When you feel happy, joyful, and loving, you’ll attract experiences that match your energy according to the Law of Attraction.

Whenever you feel discouraged by your circumstances, turn to visualization to quickly raise your vibration back to love.

Step 3: Identify Limiting Beliefs About Love

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The third step to manifest your crush is to get rid of the limiting beliefs that are in your way.

Limiting beliefs are the negative beliefs that constrain your life.

Limiting beliefs block your manifestation power because they drag you down toward negative energy. And when you’re in a state of negativity, you’ll attract negative outcomes.

Some common limiting beliefs that can block you from manifesting your crush are:

  1. I’m terrible at relationships
  2. I’m going to be alone forever
  3. I always sabotage my relationships
  4. I’ll never find my soulmate
  5. True love only exists in fairy tales
  6. I’m not attractive enough
  7. I’m not interesting enough
  8. There’s no such thing as a soulmate
  9. Real love is hard to find
  10. Most relationships fail anyways

One thing that’s common in all of these limiting beliefs is they are all false.

These limiting beliefs only exist in your mind as a result of your past experiences to protect yourself from pain in the future.

The first step to getting rid of your limiting beliefs is to simply acknowledge them.

By witnessing your limiting beliefs, you’ll be able to recognize that they are not true and take corrective action to eliminate them from your life.

Honor yourself for having the strength to witness your limiting beliefs instead of running from them. 

Trust that if you weren’t ready to face your limiting beliefs about your relationships, you wouldn’t have even read this blog post!

By choosing to search for a post like this, you’re sending a massive statement to the Universe that you’re ready to heal and be free.

Step 4: Use Positive Affirmations

Once you’ve identified your limiting beliefs, a good way to get rid of them is to use affirmations.

Affirmations are positive phrases or statements used to challenge negative thoughts.

Use affirmations to gently replace your negative thoughts with high-vibe energy.

Recite your affirmations while maintaining the energy you cultivated in Step 2.

To get started, select any of the following Affirmations For Love that resonate with you and use them to combat negative thoughts.

  1. I’m ready to meet my perfect match.
  2. I enter this relationship with an open mind and heart.
  3. I welcome a positive and loving relationship into my life.
  4. I surrender all negative and judgmental thoughts.
  5. I deserve a loving relationship.
  6. I attract love into my life easily.
  7. I am lovable and worthy of receiving love.
  8. I open my heart and trust that true love will arrive.
  9. I know that my soulmate is waiting for me.
  10. I trust the Universe will find me my perfect match.

If you’re new to affirmations, you can follow this guide on using affirmations to get started.

But the number one thing to remember when using positive affirmations is it’s all about how you feel. 

Affirmations work the best when you actually believe in what you are saying. Don’t just recite affirmations just for the sake of doing it.

Choose a few that resonate with you and actually imagine how you feel if you lived out the affirmation.

If reciting an affirmation brings you a sense of relief, then you are on the right track to harnessing the power of positive affirmations.

Try writing affirmations for yourself. No one knows you and your circumstances better than you! The most powerful affirmations are the affirmations you write for yourself.

Step 5: Surrender Your Desire To The Universe

The final step to manifest your crush is to step back and let the Universe lead the way.

If you want to manifest love, you must be willing to release the outcome to the Universe.

Trying to control the outcome of a manifestation is one of the biggest blocks to manifesting your desires.

When you’re obsessing over a specific outcome, you’re telling the Universe that you don’t have faith in the divine plan.

Do you think the Universe will want to help you manifest your crush into your life if you don’t even believe in a higher power? Of course not.

The lesson here is to have faith in the Universe and simply let go and allow.

When you let go of your expectations, you open up yourself to allow the Universe to guide you toward your crush.

Even though your crush may not manifest as quickly as you’ve hoped or in the way you expect. 

Trust that the Universe’s plan always exceeds yours and will always lead to the highest good.

Keep using these 5 steps to maintain your high vibrational energy, and you are bound to manifest a loving relationship that matches your loving energy.

If you find yourself getting impatient with your manifestation, use this prayer of surrender to let go of your controlling tendency to allow yourself to receive guidance from the Universe, “Universe, I surrender my agendas, timelines, and desires to you. I trust that you are leading me towards solutions of the highest good for all.

Can You Manifest Your Crush?

Yes. You can really manifest your crush. Everything in your life is a manifestation of your thoughts. This means you can manifest relationships using your thoughts too.

The best way to manifest your crush is to stop putting him or her on a pedestal.

Your crush is just a human being like you.

The more difficult you think it is to be with them, the more difficulties you will experience.

When you focus on how fun it is to date and be in a relationship, your energy becomes carefree and flirty. This energy is super attractive and will help you attract the right partner into your life.

How Long Does It Take To Manifest Your Crush?

It can take a few days to a few months to manifest your crush. 

The amount of time it will take depends on how well you stay in alignment with the belief that you will be with your crush.

If you’re always thinking about how they won’t like you back or they like someone else already,  you will block this relationship from manifesting.

You cannot think about not having what you want and manifest what you want at the same time.

The majority of your thoughts must be aligned with the belief that you can manifest your crush no matter what.

This means no negative self-talk, no self-doubt, and no worrying about how they won’t like you back.

As long as you believe you can manifest your crush, you will manifest him or her.

Can You Manifest Your Crush Even If You Have No Contact?

Yes, you can manifest your crush even if you have no contact with them. It doesn’t matter whether you have contact or no contact at all.

You do not need to worry about how you will get together.

As long as you believe in the end result, you will manifest it in one way or another.

Can You Manifest Your Crush Even If They Don’t Know You?

Yes, you can manifest your ex even if they don’t know you right now.

It doesn’t matter whether they know you or not.

You do not need to worry about how they will meet you.

As long as you believe in the end result, you will manifest it in one way or another.

How To Manifest Your Crush If They Have A Girlfriend or Boyfriend

The best way to manifest your crush if they already have a girlfriend or boyfriend is to visualize the end result you want to manifest.

It doesn’t matter if they are already in a relationship. That is just part of the unfolding to the end result.

As long as you remain faithful to the end result you want to manifest, it will come into form.

How To Manifest Your Crush to Like You

The best way to manifest your crush like you back is to work on being the best version of yourself.

Work on yourself physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Do it with the intention of being the best version of yourself rather than using it as a way to make your crush like you.

This will help you grow into the person you are meant to be and attract (and maintain) a loving relationship in the future.

How to Manifest your Crush to Ask You Out

The best way to manifest your crush to ask you out is to create a belief in your mind that people love spending time with you.

When you believe that people love going with you and doing things with you, you will attract these experiences into your life.

So get your journal out and write about why people love spending time with you. What do you bring to the table? What are the qualities that make you shine? Are you funny? Are you friendly? What makes you special?

Do this writing exercise for at least 40 days until these thoughts become a belief in your mind.

When you believe you’re an absolute joy to be around, your energy is vibrant and playful. This energy is very attractive and it will help you manifest so many dates.

How to Manifest a Relationship With Your Crush

The best way to manifest a relationship with your crush is to create a belief in your mind that you’re the perfect partner to be in a relationship with.

When you believe that you’re worthy of a wonderful romantic relationship, you will attract these experiences into your life.

So get your journal out and write about why you make a great partner in a relationship. What makes you the perfect partner? What can you bring to the relationship? What is so great about you?

Do this writing exercise for at least 40 days until these thoughts become a belief in your mind.

When you believe you’re a great catch, your energy is super confident and magnetic. This energy is sex and attractive and it will help you manifest a partner that’s right for you.

How to Manifest Your Crush Quickly

The best way to manifest your crush quickly is to let go of the timeline.

There is no rush to manifest a relationship with your crush. You have all the time in the world!

When you impose a timeline on your crush, your energy will become frantic and anxious. And your crush will not respond well to that. Would you want to be with a person who’s a control freak? No!

Let your beliefs do the attracting for you. 

As long as you believe in the end result, you will manifest it in one way or another.